Phoebe Cates acted in many movies like “Gremlins” and “Drop Dead Fred,” but most people remember her for a famous scene in a pool without a top in the movie “Fast Times at Ridgemont High” in 1982.
But she stopped acting over 20 years ago. Now, she has a regular job where she works from 9 to 5 doing something she really enjoys.
Phoebe Belle Cates was born on July 16, 1963, in New York City. When she was a young girl, she attended private schools and took ballet lessons at Julliard.
Acting was a family thing for Phoebe. Her dad, Joe Cates, was a producer-director, and her uncle was the president of the Director’s Guild. Even her brother used to act, and her sister, Valerie, worked on stage.
At first, Phoebe wanted to be a dancer. Unfortunately, she had to stop because of a knee injury.
When Phoebe was 14, she began modeling and did quite well. She even appeared on the cover of Seventeen magazine four times. But she didn’t really enjoy it. It became boring for her, and she only did it for the money.
One day, she went to a party at Studio 54 in New York and met someone who helps actors get roles in movies (a film agent). Then, she got trained by Robert Ravan, who started The Actors’ Circle in New York.
“In 1985, I just knew that I didn’t want to go to college. And if I could get a couple of movies, it would be a great way to avoid going to college. Seriously, that’s true,” she said to The Daily Item.
Cates also learned acting with Alice Spivack of the H.B. Studios. She started acting in 1982 in a movie called Paradise as the character Sarah. Less than a year later, she was in the movie “Experienced,” and then the famous “Fast Times at Ridgemont High” with the well-known swimming pool scene.
This movie was really important for teenagers and became a big part of popular culture. There’s one scene where Phoebe Cates drops her bikini top, and Rolling Stone magazine called it “the most memorable bikini-drop in cinema history.”
As a friend of mine once said, that scene made a lot of teenage boys’ hearts beat faster than they should have.
Later on, while also doing theater, Phoebe played the main role in a movie called “Private School” as Christine Ramsey in 1983. She also had a part in Steven Spielberg’s movie “Gremlins” in 1984. Phoebe met Kevin Kline, a famous theater actor, when she auditioned for the 1983 film “The Big Chill.” Even though she didn’t get the role, she ended up marrying him.
Kline was 16 years older than Cates, but they didn’t start dating until two years after they first met. After Kline hired Cates’ former assistant, he asked the employee to help him ask out the actress.
In 1989, when Phoebe Cates was 25 and Kevin Kline was 41, they got married in New York City. They had their first child, Owen Joseph, in 1991, and in 1994, their daughter Greta Simone was born.
As they celebrated an impressive 27 years of marriage in 2017, many wondered what kept them happy together for so long. Kevin Kline said, “We take care of the marriage.”
Even though Phoebe was doing well in her acting career at that time, she decided to stop acting after having their children. In the 1990s, she started to be less seen in the entertainment industry. In 1998, she explained to Playboy that both she and her husband agreed to take turns with acting jobs so that their children would always have a parent around.
Kevin Kline mentioned that when it was Phoebe Cates’s turn to work, she would choose to stay home with the children. Although Cates did some acting now and then, she started being seen more at fancy events with her husband, who kept acting regularly.
In 2005, Cates opened a store called Blue Tree close to Carnegie Hall. The store sold perfumes, clothes, and gifts.
Cates became a full-time shopkeeper, often working in the store or finding new things to sell. You can find Phoebe’s store at 1283 Madison Avenue in New York City, on Manhattan’s Upper East Side, where she also lives.
And just so you know, Phoebe still looks fantastic!
What comes to mind when you think of Phoebe? I always thought that she was a pretty good actress, but my first two thoughts of her are usually the shower scene (in the cave) in “Paradise” and the bikini scene in “Fast Times At Ridgemont High.”
